It’s been an interesting 12 months…

Actually it's been an interesting 28 months, but I digress I've been kinda quiet for the last few months. Things have finally come to a conclusion, and I feel like I can begin to write again. Maybe as a way to explain why I've been quiet. I've been working on this for a few days …

How to deal with baby mama drama

Ran across a mid 30's guy trying to get his life back under control and sorted. One of the big issues was that his visitation schedule with his kids was causing a TON of forced interaction with the kids mom as the kids go back and forth. And she is using that forced interaction time …

Thoughts on M/s

Was going through an old Twitter DM thread with a cute little thing I know, all the way back to Sept of 2019, and I found this. I haven't published anything in a minute, a few things I'm working on are in the hopper, but I liked this when I read it again after so …

A Letter to Young Guns Starting to Learn Pickup

A letter from my older self to my younger self as a means of sticking a boot in my younger ass to move me forward. I just didn't do the work back then, and I regret that now looking back. I didn't maximize myself if I look back at those days honestly. Regrets suck I'm …

10 Things This Dominant Needs

Found this waaay back in My notes from Oct of 2017, the post came from an online source that I didn't note at the time. I reread it just now and thought about My past experiences and said "huh, this is pretty on target" and decided to go with it 1) Do what its told …

The LARPing submissive

I had this concept pop into my head last night, and I liked the way it worked out. I wanted to dump it out as a quick hitter I've been trying to come up with a way to vet a submissive. Coaching a young man earlier this morning who reached out saying he wanted a …

Have you properly thanked your man, every day, for his sacrifice?

One geared more towards the ladies, and lots of value for the men This is supposed to be a quick hitter that just keeps dragging out the more I play with it. Riffing on a quick Patrice O'Neal throw away line that goes along with HoustonSubGirl's tweets, and parrots a lot of things already written …

Thoughts on Dating Single Mom’s

I wrote this earlier today for a men's group I am part of, a good looking guy in his 20's was asking for feedback in the group about dating an older co-worker who outearned him and is a single mom. The Holy Trinity of "oh, hell no!". So I thought I'd blog a bit more …

Are you looking for just a hook up, or an LTR?

So I was asked the other day - "Are you looking for just a hook up or a long term relationship?"Thought it was a great question, one I've been asked a bunch over the years. So I logged some time with a response, and came up with this:Huh, interesting question. Lots of real estate between …

Clarifying roles for My girl, slave or sub?

As a guy who enjoys "the lifestyle" I grabbed this online somewhere awhile back to help me make heads and tails of the differences, to help me know what I want from my girl, to be sure I'm seeing the actions line up with the commitments she makes to me So what is the difference …